Friday, April 21, 2006
shes MYYY best primary school friend! hehehehe. ANDDD, shes just younger than me by a day! hurhur.
i say Librians Rocks. Dunt you think so too? hehs. *grins widely*
oaky then.
we practically chatted everything and anything.
From clothes to pumps to BOYS (or rather just this one muscular Cutie whos had advertised on tv. hehs) and to of cos, BGR.
I know i know.
But i guess thats unavoidable during moments of 'ketching-up"! lol.
then there was this topic.
Jealousy Vs Envy.
which is worst?
Envy occurs when a person lacks another person's superior quality, achievement, or possession, and desires it - or wishes that the other person lacked it.
Jealousy, by contrast, occurs in the context of a close relationship when a person fears losing an important other to a rival - in particular, losing a relationship that is important to one's sense of self.
Jealousy is inherently human on so many counts - largely stemming from fear of losing what is dear to oneself - whereas the machiavellian intentions of envy can only come from selfish, grasping greed.
Envy implies the hope that a good will be taken away from another, whether or not we get possession of it ourselves.
Jealousy is merely a fear of losing another's exclusive or special love; it is resentment at being replaced by a rival.
Soooooo, whats YOU-ouRRR verdict?
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Stay Alive!
Jealousy says, "I want what you have."
Envy goes further and declares, "Not only do I want what you have, but I will do all in my power to take what you have away so neither of us can enjoy it."
And that is essentially what makes Envy the Deadly Sin it is.